Ouch. I got my crown replacement started today, along with a filling. In three weeks I go back for the permanent crown and one other filling. Joy. $170 today, and about that much next time. My dentist replaced the crown free of charge. I think it's because it's one he did and it's only 5-6 years old. So the bill could have been a WHOLE lot worse.

Medical out of pocket this month - $759....Wow. A little of that will get reimbursed by insurance, and then we can submit the rest to the medical reimbursement plan at DH's work (which is still our money, of course, but at least it's pre-tax dollars and therefore go further).

The latest idea for DD's room at the moment may be to gut and redo her closet. We have an older house and the closet is funky. But there's a ton of room in there, so we might just figure out a system where she can store all clothing and shoes in there, and do away with the need for a dresser completely.

We're having a really simple dinner tonight - burritos and who knows what else. Something easy tomorrow night too, and then Thursday we head out of town for a few days. The bulk of our travel costs are on someone else's dime, as DH is doing some training for an organization he has done web development for. This is the third time we've gotten to do this, and it's usually fun.

Didn't spend any money that I hadn't already planned on spending, and in buying something online for DH for his birthday, I found a promo code by searching for one on Google that got me a freebie too that he'll enjoy. Cool

I'm down to five students now, as one of them had his last appointment today before his AP test next week. I asked him to email me this summer when he gets his test results. He's been with me for three years now...time flies.

Got my yogurt maker today - thanks for the info on it kashi! - and am looking forward to trying it out after we're home from the trip.

Dh and I went looking at lofts for DD yesterday. In the end, though, I think neither of us is ready to not be able to easily get into and out ofher bed for reading and snuggling, so we are going to postpone that idea. Her dresser has two drawers that are a pain to open and shut (it's an antique) so we may move that into our guest room and get her one from the unfinished wood place in town.

I moved three rubbermaid bins of clothes and blankets out of her room and managed to empty one of them completely through better storage and creating a giveaway/eBay pile.

DH took off all of the tile that surrounded the tub in the guest bathroom. Before we can put up new wall board and re-tile, we need to have some plumbing work done. We're going to get new tub fixtures as well. Kind of a pain, but it will look nice when all is said and done, and it shouldn't cost too much, given we'll do the bulk of the work ourselves.

My dad said he would try to get one set of kitchen cupboard doors finished for us and bring them when they come to visit in a couple of weeks. I hope he can get to them. It will be nice to get that project moving forward.

Our friends treated us to dinner Friday night, which was a pleasant surprise. We went to a hole in the wall Mexican place last night - $13 for the three of us, including drinks - before heading to Cost Plus to look at window treatment. I love Cost Plus - so much cool stuff.

The credit card cycle ends tomorrow, so Tuesday I'll import the data into Quicken and see how we're doing meeting our budget after about four months of data.

So it's Wednesday. DIdn't make it to the farmer's market, thereby making today a no-spend day, but not in a good way, if that makes sense.

DH is tutoring tonight, and may have some freelance work to do as well as a rush job (in addition to his current freelance work load). I have two students coming today, assuming no one cancels at the last minute. Standardized testing has started in our district, so some classes are in full review mode instead of learning anything new mode.

PT tomorrow - another $75 (but some does get reimbursed). After tomorrow I go to once every four weeks to see how that goes.

Friday night we are going out to dinner with friends we haven't seen in quite some time - at least a year, possibly two.

Still feeling crummy about the things I was feeling crummy about yesterday. Felt crummier as I was washing the kitchen and dining room floors...

Some food totals so far for April...

Groceries: $284.09
Restaurants: $91.47
Starbucks: $37.50
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Total: $413.06

And 11 days left to go in April. I did just go grocery shopping yesterday, so I won't have to do a major shop for at least a week. I'll spend $10-$15 tomorrow at the farmer's market, most likely. I feel like I'm obsessed with these three categories and yet doing very little to change them. I'm doing some things, but truth be told I'm not doing nearly as much as I could. I nickel and dime it by saving stamps with online bill pay, only to go blow the equivalent of 7 stamps on one latte. Ten again, I'd be buying the latte anyway, given my habits, so saving some stamps is still a savings. The point is that it doesn't add up to much.

I wish cooking were different here. I wish it was something the family did together, that it didn't feel like a chore that has fallen into my lap by virtue of being the at-home parent. It wasn't so much my responsibility when we were two-incomes, no kids. I've talked about this with DH and he is just as unhappy at times with how we've fallen into these very traditional gender roles. We both crave more balance.

Cooking - maybe it's time to try and get DD more involved. And I mean truly involved an not just pouring the ingredients once they have been measured. Get her to help plan some menus, do some shopping, really get in there and be part of the process. Maybe it would have more meaning to me if we did that, as opposed to the way I view it now - something that has to be done by someone, and that someone is usually me.

Sometimes I want to go out to dinner because I get sick of eating the same old things here.

I just paid 6 months of car and homeowner's insurance to the tune of about $1150. Ugh!

I'm still switching over to online bill pay through my credit union. I like being able to schedule payments. What I would like to do is develop a schedule, or a routine of some sort, where I take care of scheduling bills, reconciling Quicken and generally keeping all of our finances in order. I'll get there - it's just a matter of getting used to new ways of doing the same old stuff.

DH heard that bonuses were going to be happening this year at work. Neither of us has ever somewhere with bonuses before. I won't count on it until we have it, but it's nice to think it might be coming. A raise would be really nice, but I don't think that's happening this year.

One of my students is home with the flu today, so I only saw one student today. One is better than none, however.

Did some grocery shopping today. I spent about $95 and still need to go to the farmer's market on Wednesday for produce. I know I could be saving a significant amount of money by making things from scratch and foregoing a lot of the convenience foods. Even at Trader Joe's,where I feel like prices are fair and the quality is usually pretty good (although I don't like to buy my produce there anymore), the premade pizzas, chow mein, etc really adds up. I keep reminding myself that eating convenience foods at home is cheaper than going out to eat. This is a journey; I'm just not as far down the road as I'd like to be. I also don't want to be solely responsible for the meals my family eats. But that's an entry for another day.

DD and I need to go to the library this afernoon and return some books that are due today. Too bad they aren't due tomorrow - we'll be within blocks of the library tomorrow morning. I don't want to pay late fees, however.

Dh and I have been talking about investing in a new refrigerator. The one we have works fine, but it's 10-11 years old and we figure the newer models have got to be more energy efficient. We could sell the one we have - or list it on freecycle for that matter. We think we might like one with a freezer at the bottom instead of on top.

DH and I are also back to talking about what home improvements we can do around here on our own, for a relatively low amount of money. My dad is going to build all new kitchen cabinet doors, and I had samples of hinges and hardware sent to his house, so hopefully that project will be underway sooner than later. About a year and a half ago we were getting quotes for cabinet refacing, among other things, and then our dog needed surgery. So we talked to my dad about making new doors for us, and he said he would.

We also still need to finish up the guest bathroom - take off the old tile surrounding the tub, putting up new wall board and tiling the walls - so that we can feel like it's finished and move on to thinking about our bathroom.

We loooked under the linoleum in our kitchen to see what kind of subflooring we had, hoping it would be some sort of hardwood like our neighbors found across the street. No such luck, so it looks like we'll be putting in some sort of new floor in there down the road - tile, or something else.

I was reading kashi's journal about her new haircut and highlights, and it got me thinking about my own hair. Last November, I decided to do something about my hair since I was tired of not liking it, so I got highlights done. I loved them and promised myself I would keep up with them every three months or so. Uh huh - do the math....it's now been 5 months since I've been. The honest truth is I'm having a hard time letting myself spend the $90-$100 on my hair. But I really did like how they turned out, and almost every week I think about setting an appointment. And then I don't. Hmmmm.....

On another note, I am going to see if there is any interest among the other hs'ing families I've been getting to know in renting out a plot in our community garden for all of us to share in, as sort of a weekly group outing. I'll do it if others are enthusiastic about it.

Last night's dinner was quite the hodgepodge of leftovers - falafel and stuffed grape leaves, soy chicken patties, spaghetti witih red sauce, tortilla soup, black beans... It was definitely a clean out the refrigerator sort of meal!

I've got laundry hanging outside today. It's warm and breezy - perfect for line-drying things.

I really need to get a few nights of good sleep and go to bed earlier, too. I'm starting to feel wiped out.

Oh - my strawberries are still getting eaten by something!! I put out Sluggo (hate to do it, but we are being overrun by snails), to no avail. I got four just a little while ago, but there were another 4-6 that were ripe but eaten on.

DD got her cavity filled today - $140 (they wouldn't honor the $100 coupon, but they did let me use the $25 coupon).

My visit was $152, and I get to go back for a filling and a crown replacement in two weeks - joy, oh joy. The crown *may* be no charge though, so my fingers are crossed. The filling will run me around $170, I think.

Picked up dry cleaning today - something I rarely do but every now and then I have to (wool sweater, cashmere, etc). That was about $26. Mailed taxes with delievery confirmation - $8.60. A trip to Starbucks with DD as a reward to myself for overcoming my dental phobia - $6.

What a day and it's barely even lunchtime.

On a lighter note, DD and I counted at least 6 pea pods when we were out looking at our plants yesterday. I don't think our strawberries are being munched on anymore.

Restaurants: $47
Groceries: $184.12
Starbucks: $18.30
Car: $171.59 (not including gas)
Medical: $168

Those are some of our spending totals for 4/1 - 4/12. Two more dental visits, another PT appointment....it's adding up fast.

I spoke with the front office person at DD's dentist office, and she says that the coupon we received can't be used for a filling. BUT, the coupon's wording says "Good for any dental treatment, including crowns, ....." *ANY* being a key word, in my opinion. So I'm going to bring it in and see what they say when we're face to face on the subject.

I need to take a look at the finances thus far for the month. It feels like it's been an expensive one already. DD gets her filling tomorrow, and I go to the dentist too. I think I'll get together a new batch of medical receipts for DH to turn in at the end of the month, seeing as we don't have dental insurance and won't be waiting for any other reimbursement there. I have two PT visits to submit to insurance, but I may wait and submit March and April together and save myself half the paperwork, and half the postage. On the subject of PT - after my visit next week, we're going to go to once every four weeks and see how that goes.

I'll take a look at our spending later today or tomorrow and see where we're at.

This morning DD and I are off to the park where we're hopefully meeting up with another hs'ing mom and her two daughters.

I went shopping with my parents at some of the antique stores today. We also hit a few thrift stores, and I got two pair of pants for $10.70. one pair is from Ann Taylor and the other is from Old Navy. Neither one fits just right, but I think they'll both be OK - they fit well enough. My mom and I went to the farmer's market this morning, so we had some nice, fresh produce at lunch and dinner.

I'm tired. I've been staying up too late, too many nights in a row. I need to get to bed earlier this evening. Seems there's always something I want to get to once the house is quiet, though.

I've started and torn out a sweater twice now. I have yarn that I bought with a gift certificate for my birthday, and I'm trying to knit a sweater without a pattern. I haven't even knit one before *with* a pattern, so this should be interesting. My mom gave me some advice this evening, so I'm starting anew for the third time. Maybe this will be the charm? It's wonderful yarn - a natural colored 100% organic cotton.

DH had to spend a bunch of money today - smog check, oil for the car, gas fill up, dog food, flea stuff for the cats...fun, fun, fun. The joys of being a responsible adult.

I need to go to the grocery store this morning to pick up a few things before my parents get into town. I also want to go to the farmer's market tomorrow morning for some salad fixings and other produce.

We've got some ripe strawberries on our own plants - a whopping two so far - but something out there is munching on them. I think it may be snails. Our peas are looking great- tons of blossoms! Our sugar snap peas are doing OK, but they're lagging compared to the regular peas. The raspberries are looking good, too. Can't wait to start picking fresh red raspberries. Our patio lemon tree has been producing well lately, whihc is nice. I like being able to go out and pick a fresh lemon when I need one.

Yesterday's spending...
Coffee and scones - $10
Sodas at the amusement park- $5
Balloons - $14
Dinner - $47

Today's spending...
PT- $75 (but about half of that will eventually be reimbursed)

Tonight we're having leftovers for dinner, and tomorrow night we're going to DH's parents' house for dinner.

I got a coupon in the mail today good for $100 off any dental work from DD's dentist. I didn't have it two days ago when we were there, but I am going to make sure they honor it when we go in next week to get that cavity filled. That was a welcome surprise in the mail!

I stayed and watched DD's ballet class this afternoon. They're rehearsing for their spring performance. I know I'm going to cry happy tears when she's actually up on that stage, dancing.

Spending today:

7 items to the dry cleaners at $3.95 per item
$15.50 for a haircut for DD
$6 on modeling clay for DD
And a visit later this afternoon to the dentist for DD - don't know yet what that will cost.

We were going to go get smoothies for lunch, but I ended up coming home instead, and now I'm glad that we did.

I spent a lot of time out back yesterday pruning and weeding. Dumped five wheelbarrows full of yard waste. A friend is in town for a few days, so we're having an impromptu potluck here at the hose this evening. Should be fun. Everyone is bringing something to grill and a side dish to share, so it won't really cost us anything extra. I told DH I didn't mind having the party here and would, in fact, like that, but I didn't want to do any extra shopping for it. He agreed, and everyone else has been fine with that too.


Edited to add -

Dentist was $93 today, and next week DD has to get a small filling Her dentist has been watching this molar for about a year now, and it's to the point where she needs to go in and get it filled.
Price for that is about $165, I think.

Spent about $41 at the grocery store on beer for tonight, snacks for tomorrow's outing, milk, cereal, yogurt and a couple of other small things.

I suddenly feel quite tired and down...

I've added a couple more bills to my online bill pay through the credit union. I like the convenience of it and just need to remember to record these payments that I schedule.

For the first three months of the year we've stuck to our budget overall. Individual categories may need some tweaking but we're on the plus side which makes me feel good about our efforts.
More later....

DH and I have been working hard - and working more hours - to build back up our savings, and onthe first of each month I add up all of our accounts to see where we're at. Slowly but surely we are creeping back up to where we want to be! We're very close now, but the credit card bill is coming, so I really can't count that money. It's going to feel good to see our accounts back where we want them to be. Tutoring all but ends for a couple of months in the summer, and one of my students won't be coming once he's taken his AP test, so some of the extra income will be falling by the wayside before too long.

I added up some spending for March:
Groceries: $415.81
Restaurants: $292.02
Starbucks: $5.50

That included the ski trip. Higher totals than we budgeted, but we'll get back on track in April. Starbucks was lower due to gift cards from a friend as a thank you present.

Edited to add that I sold another book today and netted about $9. Woo hoo!